Ever tried an RPG and the game just doesn’t capture you, or you’ve felt uncomfortable or even bored?! Following on from some pretty awful games / dungeon master situations I’ve been in recently, I thought I’d give you some top tips on how not to be a nightmare games master!
Read up and Prep as much as you can
As a dungeon master, don’t turn up with a guidebook and think you can wing it. Most of the time RPGs are quite complex, and they take time to organise, but the pay-off if you do it right, is awesome. It also helps to improvise – if you know the goal that you want your players to reach, it really doesn’t matter how the players get there as long as they’re having fun.
Shoehorning people along breaks immersion
If people are not moving fast enough or not going in the direction you want, don’t push them on by making them suddenly appear in another place, or say things like “You decide to…” because their decisions are entirely up them. As a dungeon master “What would you like to do?” is the best phrase you can learn to get people to make decisions quickly.
Be as descriptive as possible
Sometimes it’s not enough to say YOU AWAKE TO FIND YOURSELF IN A DARK ROOM. When you walk into a new area, think of the senses. What can the players smell, see, hear or touch that might make them feel a certain way. Might the chill down their backs, the smell of rotten flesh and the scraping in the distance of knifes against stone, make people feel on edge more-so than describing the room itself? After all, this is all theatre of the mind!
Don’t make people do pointless things
Is there a reason why the players would be going to this place? Will it progress the story? If not, it’s advised you don’t bother. For example, are you leading a party somewhere, only to have them need to go somewhere else and then come back? It may work in video games but in RPG, time is precious. Use it wisely!
Don’t oppose tools like the X Card
The X card is a new concept for me, but a simple one. A card with an X on to use if the role play goes in a direction the players are too uncomfortable with. For example, a person might be fine with zombies eating them alive, but if they drown…. they freak out! They can just point to the X card, and the DM would call a break, or bring them up to surface, ask if we’re okay to carry on or we need a cool down. It’s something simple that makes playing with strangers a much less anxious scenario! More about the X Card here.
Maths – there’s a reason 5th Edition is the most popular
I am not saying it’s the best – but there is a reason why D&D 5th Edition is so popular. It’s because although there is maths involved, it’s been made much more accessible. Don’t get too caught up in the mathematical side or the “Let’s see if you’re able to do that” pedantics – it takes out some of the fun! Instead you should…
Apply the rule of cool… strategically.
Does something apply within the physics and capabilities within the game? Does it make sense to the character themselves? Is it just really cool? If it ticks all 3 boxes, you might want to apply the rule of cool. Allow players to think outside the box and don’t dampen their spirits when they want to do something a bit wild. Don’t do it too much though, or it just gets a bit crazy… Also, don’t let some do it more than others because that’s favouritism. And there should be…
Lots of us may be playing with a group of people that we know in varying degrees – a mixture of best friends and partners… and friends of friends or strangers. It’s really important for everyone to enjoy the game that you don’t favour some over others. Also, try to make sure that jokes stay relevant to everyone and aren’t just in-jokes or out of game references to obscure pop-culture!
Give Everyone their Time to Shine
There’s nothing worse than letting one person with a bigger mouth take over the game. The game shouldn’t be governed by who can speak the loudest; it should be about everyone. Again that question, “What would you like to do?” works magically when asking individuals who might seem a little quiet.
Be on Disengagement Watch
If you notice people go on their phones, start to stare around the room, getting sleepy or just restless – take a break at a good pause in the story. Or mention to people that a break is coming shortly. It’s supposed to be fun, not like work!
Don’t make your players read the book!
Part of the fun from the players’ perspective, is to be allowed free reign within the world to enjoy a character within that world. Reading the book is YOUR job. If someone asks what spells would be available from a certain shop, don’t just give them the book and get them to read through. It detracts from game-play time, and it doesn’t help with meta-gaming either since they shouldn’t have the same knowledge you do!
Thanks for reading!
Enjoyed this post on being a dungeon master? You may also want to check out the other posts in my “Critical Hit!” series on D&D. You can get to those here.
28th September 2019
As a DM I absolutely agree with a lot of these. The X card in particular seems like a good idea. I write a lot of very visceral horror stuff, and having the consent and trust of the players is essential.
I think the prep point is a bit ambiguous. Some of my best sessions have been entirely improvised. It’s important to have a really strong foundation set up before you start winging it though.
Finally, the maths point. I’ve been playing since 3rd edition. I also struggle with maths; especially under the implied pressure of combat. I still feel that there wasn’t too much in previous editions, and often find the small array of skills restrictive in 5th.
A good DM knows how to set DCs to shepherd players away from things that won’t work or are silly. This allows you to still say ‘yes’ or ‘well, you can try…’ and keep the game going.
I love your focus on fun and story. Keep up the good work, and may the dice be ever in your favour!
28th September 2019
Thanks so much for your comment, Chris!
I’d love to see your DM’ing in action at some point! I’m sure you’re pretty brilliant 😀
29th September 2019
One of my friends is a new time DM and he did kept shoehorning us or he would say things like “I don’t think you guys should do that.” I talked to him about it and now he has gotten a lot better.
30th September 2019
That’s good! Glad that he was open to your comments. I think that’s another key thing – don’t be precious about your feedback!